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2009-04-01T23:21:00.000-07:00

Man tries to lure kids to build swing, police say.

Man tries to lure kids to build swing, police say
by Sherry Anne Rubiano - Mar. 28, 2009 11:27 AM

The Arizona Republic

Phoenix police are investigating reports of a man who attempted to lure children from their homes.

Police received two similar reports Wednesday about a man who approached children outside their homes and asked them for help to build a swing, said Lt. Kimberly Haller with the Phoenix Police Department.

Haller said the first incident was near Third and Glendale avenues. A man rode his bike up to a child in the front yard. He asked the child to help him build a swing. The child's
mother ran outside, and the man took off on his bike.

Ten minutes later, the same thing happened near First and Glendale avenues, Haller said. A man approached two children in front of their house. The children's mother got in her car and tried to chase the man but was unable to catch him.

Parents described the man as a White male, 5 feet 10 inches tall, and 55- to 60-years-old. He was riding a turquoise beach bike.

Haller said police are investigating.

Haller said parents should not let their children play outside alone.

"You should never leave your kids unsupervised in the first place," she said.

Anyone with information is encouraged to call Silent Witness at 480-WITNESS (948-6377) or 480-TESTIGO (837-8446) for Spanish, or call 911 in an emergency.

Horrible, and a parents worst nightmare. Some Paedophile riding around on a bike looking to abduct young children. Deplorable.

Except it isn't true.

Police: Child predator call was a 'misunderstanding'.

Police: Child predator call was a 'misunderstanding'
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by Eddi Trevizo - Mar. 31, 2009 11:10 AM

The Arizona Republic

A child predator warning released last week was a misunderstanding and posed no threat to the community after all, Phoenix police said Monday night.

According to Phoenix police, the warning that was released to residents in a neighborhood near Glendale and Third avenues on March 25 was a mistake.

The incident actually involved a neighborhood resident who approached three children to ask where to find a neighborhood swing he had seen on his bike rides through the
neighborhood.

The man approached the children because he planned to build a swing for his wife, and not as a ruse to lure them from their homes as previously reported in a neighborhood warning, Phoenix police said in a press release.

The man and his wife were not home when the "possible predator" warning was sent to neighborhood residents on March 25. When they returned home the wife realized that the description of the man, and especially the bicycle, matched that of her husband. The woman immediately called the authorities, police said.

The man was planning to build a tree swing, Phoenix police said in a press release.

"Our officers are convinced that this was a mistake and some cautions are being discussed in the neighborhood to prevent this type mistake again," according to the release.

Investment Banker To Stripper

2009-03-30T16:08:00.000-07:00

I just saw a segment on Inside Edition. A former female Morgan Stanley worker, now working as a dancer at a gentlemen's burlesque club.

So the ONLY skill you have is to stand naked in front of men?

And this is who was working at the Investment Banks during the Bubble Years?

Suck it up, ladies.

The men you know are very contentedly reducing their lifestyles, cutting back, selling unneccessary possessions. Whilst women, addicted to money and affluence, and compelled to live a lifestyle similar to one they see on T.V., are doing anything for money.

The world's oldest profession surely is not far behind.

Another Futile Argument With an American Woman...

2009-03-29T19:20:00.000-07:00

"not only do I refer to EQUALITY in an earlier post but frequently on prev threads about this very topic. it does not matter. most of the women-hating going on is just that. it's fear. and for many it's fun and entertaining. so - let 'em. it's futile to reason or clarify."

You referred to anti-feminism here wrt a statement by Nemesis:

"anti-feminism"... do you even understand it?

I understand it very, very well. Nemesis seems to, as well.

"most of the women-hating going on is just that."

It's not woman-hating. It's disagreeing with your assessment. This is 100.00% common argument tactic amongst women debating men who disagree with their stance on gender issues. You cannot refute the points - you have done nothing of the sort - so you refer to it as 'woman-hating' in an attempt to shame and mock and close debate.

"it's fear. and for many it's fun and entertaining."

This is the mocking I refer to above.

I *am* one of those anti-feminists, and trust me on this one I can debate this with you for years. I likely know more about the foundations of current Family Court Law, feminist attitudes, the general attitude that some women have (ably demonstrated in your quotes above), Feminist Leaders, and ideology, than you do, and I am 100.oo% willing to put that to the test.

But not here, as this is KD's turf and a Financial Forum.

"let 'em. it's futile to reason or clarify."

I have read this, or a variation on this, hundred's of times during the past 12 years on the Internet. Yet, no woman is willing to debate, or end up doing what you have done above - laugh and mock, chuckling and pointing to the men as being in "fear" and being "fun and entertaining."

Let me tell you how fun and entertaining it is to be a Man in the USA.

When I go pick up my mail at the UPS Store, strangers sit in their car and idle, waiting for me to come out, keeping an eye on me.

When I am in public anywhere, by myself, and any child is anywhere near me, has maybe wandered a few feet away from Mommy, mother usually shepards the kid away from me, sometimes rather furtively grasping Johnnie's hand and getting him away from the dangerous, single man.

How about the men I know who made the mistake of dating someone at the office. Not earning enough, or they weren't alpha enough, or they just pissed off the woman. Boom. One call to H.R. and his career is ruined. Her word is Reality and Law, the man's word is of course a lie and self-serving.

There are tens of thousands of websites devoted to anti-feminism, and most men go through a stage of arguing with women like you who refuse to be fair-minded, and cannot contemplate that there is any possibility that all of the 'progress' in gender relations in the USA over the past 50 years can have any flaws at all. Your response evetually leads most to give up because you are either irrational, argue like you are in High School (...for many it's fun and entertaining....) laughing at the beta males in the corner, or simply want what you want, as you have the better end of the deal.

If you like, you can PM me for some websites, but I should warn you that your attitude will be shot out of the water by hundred's of men at the sites you will visit.

Yes, many Men ARE angry, and rightfully so.

2009-03-26T04:57:00.000-07:00

Feminism has just let loose the natural, unfettered female biology.

Meanwhile, Fatherhood IS a social construct, and Feminism has destroyed it. Without fathers young women and girls then are 'free' to revert to unfettered female biology.

Criticism of Feminism == Sexism

2009-03-25T17:48:00.000-07:00

Criticism of Feminism == Sexism

This tactic has gotten old and worn, ladies.

I'm fascinated by your ability to sound just like a bitter, woman hating, white republican male who listens to Rush Limbaugh w-a-y too often and has never taken responsibility for anything his entire life. Perhaps you should move to Alabama or Louisiana and run for Congress.

This is a Basic 6th Grade Debate Fail. Ad Hominem and Slander. It no longer works, it doesn't silence men, and we don't feel shamed in comporting to how you think we should behave.

Also under new domestic violence laws the offender male or female is arrested by the police on the scene.

Not in many must arrest states. The officers must arrest the person most likely to do harm, and because men are biologically stronger on average than women, he is arrested and kicked out of his house.

Why is respect and dignity for women, so hard for the male person to understand? Do you believe we have to physically fight for this status?

Because what Anglo Feminists think of as respect and dignity is considered in the rest of the world to be the whinings of an ungrateful, spoiled, child.

Because you say you want respect and dignity, but the methods and results 2nd-4th Wave Feminists use are obviously ones of power, dominance, control, manipulation, dissemblement and superiority.

'Requesting' that men help isn't a request. You have shown this over and over during the past 50 years. What is first a request will soon become a demand, then it will become Law, forcing men to do as you wish so that you can be 'equal'. Then social and work mores and codes will be changed, and men will be forced to do what you think is 'fair', under penalty of law suit, litigation, and/or job loss and career destruction.

We get no respect or status in this world as women.

You are delusional. Only a woman who is a member of the most privileged, wealthy, free group in the history of mankind (American Women) would be able to morph such a status into one of impoverishment on all levels. American Women spend 80% of all consumer dollars, AW have a maddening array of legal, social, occupational, educational and other entitlements.

80% of the people losing their jobs in The Super Depression are men, yet you claim grievance and oppression.

This is not the response of a rational being or group.

I don't know why you think men get respect or status automatically, but to think so is the attitude of a child who doesn't understand the world. Men put up with infinite amounts of grief on a daily basis. We compete with other men, women, and now nagging harridans who have taken over much of the culture.

No one offers us a helping hand, no one opens doors for us, no one stops on the roadside to help us fix our car. There is no Affirmative Action for us. We are passed over at Uni for minorities. We are on our own, and know that we and we alone are responsible for our lives.

Yes, some of us are bitter. Because many women have treated many men so poorly at work, at home, in Divorce Court, in relationships, that we do not trust women as a group to act responsibly, sanely, with honor.

Yes, we ARE angry. We have every right to be when the back-breaking work men have done over the past 500 years to construct civilisation is lied about, dissembled about and made into 'Oppression' and 'The Patriarchy'.

You girls can change the U.S.A. all you want, but you will continue to get the same results. You will continue to be unhappy with your lives. You will continue to be stressed out, overweight, and masculine. Men will continue to back off from marriage, dating and committment. You will continue to hear more and more the refrain: "There are no good men left." That is because they cannot stand YOU, and have moved on to another country.

This you cannot stop.
You cannot force men to stay in the U.S.A. and deal with your crap. You cannot force us to love you, to date you, to marry you, to work less than you do just so you can play at being 'equal'.
Submitted by Lera on March 20, 2009 - 1:22pm.
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Feminism and the New Great Depression: What's Next?

2009-03-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

From the thread at Rh Reality Check

Criticism of Feminism == Sexism

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http://dontgetmarried.proboards75.com

This tactic has gotten old and worn, ladies.

I'm fascinated by your ability to sound just like a bitter, woman hating, white republican male who listens to Rush Limbaugh w-a-y too often and has never taken responsibility for anything his entire life. Perhaps you should move to Alabama or Louisiana and run for Congress.

This is a Basic 6th Grade Debate Fail. Ad Hominem and Slander. It no longer works, it doesn't silence men, and we don't feel shamed in comporting to how you think we should behave.

Also under new domestic violence laws the offender male or female is arrested by the police on the scene.

Not in many must arrest states. The officers must arrest the person most likely to do harm, and because men are biologically stronger on average than women, he is arrested and kicked out of his house.

Why is respect and dignity for women, so hard for the male person to understand? Do you believe we have to physically fight for this status?

Because what Anglo Feminists think of as respect and dignity is considered in the rest of the world to be the whinings of an ungrateful, spoiled, child.

Because you say you want respect and dignity, but the methods and results 2nd-4th Wave Feminists use are obviously ones of power, dominance, control, manipulation, dissemblement and superiority.

'Requesting' that men help isn't a request. You have shown this over and over during the past 50 years. What is first a request will soon become a demand, then it will become Law, forcing men to do as you wish so that you can be 'equal'. Then social and work mores and codes will be changed, and men will be forced to do what you think is 'fair', under penalty of law suit, litigation, and/or job loss and career destruction.

We get no respect or status in this world as women.

You are delusional. Only a woman who is a member of the most privileged, wealthy, free group in the history of mankind (American Women) would be able to morph such a status into one of impoverishment on all levels. American Women spend 80% of all consumer dollars, AW have a maddening array of legal, social, occupational, educational and other entitlements.

80% of the people losing their jobs in The Super Depression are men, yet you claim grievance and oppression.

This is not the response of a rational being or group.

I don't know why you think men get respect or status automatically, but to think so is the attitude of a child who doesn't understand the world. Men put up with infinite amounts of grief on a daily basis. We compete with other men, women, and now nagging harridans who have taken over much of the culture.

No one offers us a helping hand, no one opens doors for us, no one stops on the roadside to help us fix our car. There is no Affirmative Action for us. We are passed over at Uni for minorities. We are on our own, and know that we and we alone are responsible for our lives.

Yes, some of us are bitter. Because many women have treated many men so poorly at work, at home, in Divorce Court, in relationships, that we do not trust women as a group to act responsibly, sanely, with honor.

Yes, we ARE angry. We have every right to be when the back-breaking work men have done over the past 500 years to construct civilisation is lied about, dissembled about and made into 'Oppression' and 'The Patriarchy'.

You girls can change the U.S.A. all you want, but you will continue to get the same results. You will continue to be unhappy with your lives. You will continue to be stressed out, overweight, and masculine. Men will continue to back off from marriage, dating and committment. You will continue to hear more and more the refrain: "There are no good men left." That is because they cannot stand YOU, and have moved on to another country.

This you cannot stop.

You cannot force men to stay in the U.S.A. and deal with your crap. You cannot force us to love you, to date you, to marry you, to work less than you do just so you can play at being 'equal'.

Submitted by Lera on March 20, 2009 - 1:22pm.

Abusive American Women

2009-03-19T14:36:00.000-07:00

I heard Dr. Phil's monologue today.

"Self defence is never an excuse. There is no excuse to hit a woman, ever."

Women are no longer harmless victims. They are often dangerous, violent and abusive.

This Chivalry is D-E-A-D.
The days of women being unaccountable are over.
Dr. Phil's attempts to make the rest of us adhere to a mid 20th Century Southern Texas Gentleman standard will not work.

His statement gives all women in the USA carte blanche to hit any man at any time, knowing that the ones that take his advice will run away, walk away, or leave.

This would be a great tactic to get a man out of his house, and to later file false charges, get the house, kids and a restraining order.

Women in the USA must be held accountable. You hit someone, you darn well will be hit back.|

Equality. Women wanted it, now they have it. They want to be treated equal to men, then if you hit a man he will hit you back.

Just like he would if a man hit him.

Rutgers Marriage Project

2009-03-19T09:19:00.000-07:00

Marriage continues its slide. Many more people are cohabitating.

http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SOOU/2008update.pdf

This yearly release is a great illustration of why you should simply ignore the MSM and major newspapers. I remember seeing an article in the New York Times that I'm almost certain was written based on either this study or something similar to it. The headline? "The divorce rate continues to drop." -- which is of course is completely meaningless when people simply aren't getting married in the first place.

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2009-03-15T11:01:00.000-07:00

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Some of the Other Blogs

2009-03-15T10:36:00.000-07:00

In 1997, there were maybe a dozen blogs and webpages for the independent bachelor. Now, in 2009, there are so many that no one blogger can keep track of the all. This is a good thing for bachelors. Some of the best Bachelor Sites are www.dont-marry.com, www.nomarriage.com, and www.mgtow.net.

No Bachelor who is serious about living the introspective and free life of a single bachelor can be unaware of these sites.

2009-03-14T10:53:00.000-07:00

Why You Really Don't Want To Be President

2007-10-30T15:20:00.000-07:00

Men take dangerous, stressful, life shortening jobs so that they can succeed, earn more money, provide for the wife and kids, or accomplish career aspirations.

The most stressful job of all?

POTUS.

GHWB in 1988:

GHWB in 1992:

WJC in 1992:

WJC in 2001:

WJC in 2007:

GWB in 2000:

GWB in 2005:

GWB in 2007:

Comment Moderation Policy

2007-10-30T13:51:00.000-07:00

Well, none actually.

If you want to comment then do so.

I shan't be deleting or removing comments that aren't TOS violations, although I don't see the need for porn, nudity or vulgarity.

But have at it.

You will find that unlike some, I don't delete views I don't like.

I Don't Know Why, But Today I Decided To Start A Blog

2007-10-30T13:29:00.000-07:00

Considering my copious output in other locations, maybe this is not wise.

Certainly I am not that good of a writer. I know many who are better than I, even ones I think are Ideologically Out To Lunch.

Well, that's it. My first blog entry.